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قديم 11-07-2009, 08:01 AM
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Does this picture describe Your joyful home? Your baby is crying while you quickly put the fast food on Your table, the pet dog is throwing up on the floor, Your hubby's got Your television on full-blast, and Your teen son just angrily banged the door on his way out.
Unluckily, it's a typical incident for lots of us. Though {the good news is that it doesn't have to be this way. In fact, there are things you could do to Reduce this stress and establish a more harmonious atmosphere so that you and Your family could look forward to coming home!

Though some point of stress is intrinsic while you deal with the varying phases of the family members, if you try to maintain a basic set of values and go with the flow, you can uphold a happy and healthy home.
Here are selected definite Ways you could lessen the Pressure at home:
1. Get organized. Life could quickly turn into disordered when you don't keep up organization. An organized Home runs smoothly, while an unorganized Home directs to stress and lost time.
• A nice tip is to start small with Your organization efforts. Begin with one room or even a part of a room. The suggestion is to think of it like a series of small projects instead of one devastatingly huge one.
2. Communicate. Your family will surely benefit from actively working on communication skills. Whenever you don't succeed to speak to Your family effectively, you could not get what you intend and can even cause displeasing misunderstandings. Working on communication will let all family members to feel loved and valued and help out Your household run well.
3. Eat dinner together. Each person in Your family probably has a busy life of their own. It is easy to suddenly realize that you have no idea what is going on with Your spouse or kid. When you make it a point to eat dinner at the same time every night, you make a moment to be attach with Your family. You will learn how to work as one even with busy lifestyles.
4. Have fun with Your family. It's significant to arrange a moment to have fun together as a family, even if these times could't be as frequently as you'd like. Arrange family nights in advance and allow each family member a chance to decide on that activity.
5. Show unconditional love. Make sure to practice Your art of unconditional love with Your family. This leads to secure attachments and will ultimately keep each person in Your family joyful and pressure-free.
• Children and parents alike should know that, when they do wrong things, they have a loving family that will support them and forgive them.
6. Give support. Go out of Your way for Your family members. It might not be a perfect ..to go to Your kid's art show, but just think of how they will feel when they see that they have Your support and love. Actively express Your support by truly being there for Your family - no matter what. Just thinking about how much you love them isn't enough!
7. Family rules. Having a set of family rules would help with organization and allow everyone to know what's expected of them.
• Schedule a family meeting to establish the house rules. Make sure everyone has a chance to participate and share his or her concerns. You'll likely find a compromise that allows everyone to be joyful. A cheery and Pressure free Home is one built on love. do not be too hard on yourself and others, and you'll have the basis for creating an excellent Home life.




 

 

قديم 11-07-2009, 11:28 AM  
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• Schedule a family meeting to establish the house rules. Make sure everyone has a chance to participate and share his or her concerns. You'll likely find a compromise that allows everyone to be joyful. A cheery and pressure free home is one built on love. do not be too hard on yourself and others, and you'll have the basis for creating an excellent home life.
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great but ...I to this rule is impossible to achieve in our society


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قديم 11-07-2009, 02:54 PM  
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Thanks for your sharing Mr. cobra your opinions pleased me but when we say these rules couldn’t be achievable in our society we can say not all of them …
I agree but dealing with our family at home is differ from one person to another……
I think these are general rules and we can take what is appropriate or suitable for a particular situation or person…
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قديم 11-07-2009, 09:31 PM  
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Show unconditional love. Make sure to practice your art of unconditional love with your family. This leads to secure attachments and will ultimately keep each person in your family joyful and pressure-free.

I see this item as the most important and significant one


Thank you indeed Mr. Jaber









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